Start With the Basic Facts
Most obituaries begin with the loved one’s name, age, city of residence, and date of death. Some families also include the date of birth. A short opening like this gives readers the essential facts before moving into the person’s story.
Share a Brief Life Story
A short biography helps readers understand who the person was. You can mention where they grew up, where they went to school, where they worked, and what mattered most to them. Families often include hobbies, accomplishments, and qualities that stood out. Focus on a few important details rather than trying to cover everything.
List Close Family Members
Many families list surviving relatives such as a spouse, children, grandchildren, parents, and siblings. Some also choose to list relatives who died earlier. Keep the list simple and clear so people understand the family connections.
Include Service Information
If a memorial service is planned, include the date, time, and location. If there will not be a service, a short note explaining that arrangements are private or will take place at a later date helps guide readers.
Offer Ideas for Condolences
An obituary can close with a short message about where condolences can be sent or how friends may honor the person’s memory. Many families invite others to share memories online, send flowers, or make donations to a chosen organization.
Keep It Simple and Personal
Obituaries do not need to be long to be meaningful. A few well-chosen details give loved ones a clear picture of the life being remembered. Write the obituary the way your family speaks. A simple and warm tone usually feels right.
Final Thoughts
Every obituary is different. What matters most is that it feels true to the person being honored. Western Cremation Alliance supports families across Washington and Oregon, and our team can help you share your loved one’s story with care.
